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Social Media and Adolescents Mental Health: A Parent’s Perspective

  • 25 September 2024

Social Media and Adolescents Mental Health

The age of adolescence — such a whirlwind of emotion and discovery!

Adolescence is a time for self-discovery and rapid change. As a parent of an adolescent and an educator for that age group, I come across individuals facing issues of identity and purpose. They are often torn between the desire to be independent and having to adhere to the rules that accompany freedom.

Social Media: A Double-Edged Sword

While social media is a convenient medium for self-expression and to connect with friends and even, to an extent, support mental health, the risks are just as great. These include:

  • Filtered Realities: These curated images and the flattering ways of life posted on social media can foster feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem among adolescents.
  • Cyberbullying: The anonymity of the internet can expose an individual to harassment, abuse and bullying.
  • Fear of Missing Out: Constant exposure to what others are doing on social media can create a sense of incompetency and heighten anxiety and stress.

Understanding Adolescent Behaviour Through Bandura’s Social Learning Theory

Albert Bandura’s Social Learning Theory emphasizes the significance of observational learning, social experiences, and reciprocal determinism in shaping behaviour. With the onset of the digital era, social media has become a significant determinant for influencing adolescents’ values, expectations, and ways of dealing with challenges.

Determinants of Behaviour:

  • Family Environment: Family is the place where value orientation takes root for an individual.
  • Peer Influence: The friend circle can impose significant influence on decisions taken during adolescence and their pattern of social behaviour.
  • Digital Content: Online content shapes adolescents’ perceptions, expectations, and ways of dealing with stress.

Challenges in Seeking Support

Adolescents often look for quick fixes and use social media to find answers. This can result in them labeling their behavioural and mental health struggles inaccurately. The challenge is further compounded by fluctuating hormone levels, which can result in significant mood swings and changes in behaviour. Easy access to social media encourages adolescents to gather information from it rather than reaching out for support from family and friends.

Monitoring and Open Communication

Parents and caregivers may help the adolescents make their way through all the confusions created by social media. The vital strategies include the following:

  • Open Discussions: Encourage and practice open communication with your child wherein the pros and cons of social media are discussed.
  • Establish Reasonable Limits: Engage in a healthy dialogue to set limits on screen time and plan for time spent away from screen activities.
  • Empathy and Digital Citizenship: Educate them about responsible online behaviour and the importance of showing empathy and respect.

Conclusion

The digital world opens up a number of challenges and opportunities for adolescents. Realizing the duality of social media, promoting open communication, and offering support in this light can help parents and educators guide adolescents through the complex landscape that life is, providing them with life skills for a healthy and satisfying life.

Co-authored by Leena Nair, Supportive Instructor